Sometimes an older ferret will take a younger one “under his or her wing.” That happens sometimes when you bring home a baby and a slightly older ferret, usually a female but not always, will decide that the newcomer is her “baby.” Sometimes a male ferret will do this, too. Sometimes adult ferrets will bond the first time they meet.
The most touching case of bonding happened one time when a lady brought an 8 year old and a 4 year old to the shelter to find a playmate for the 4 year old. We found a nice friend for that ferret, and then she said, “I wonder if Bella will be lonely?” At the time, I had an elderly silver mitt male who was just a little over 6, but seemed to be in good health and we decided to try the old girl with with.
Normally, once a female gets past about 3 or so, they often don’t want any new friends and will chirp and screech at the prospective friend, sometimes getting rather violent. Not this time!
As soon as we put Merlin down, he went up to Bella and began grooming her face. She kissed him and they curled up together like they were old buddies! I think we both stood there with our mouths hanging open for a good 60 seconds before either of us could speak. It was adorable!
The lady took Merlin as well as the friend for her younger ferret, and reported a week or so later that those two were the best of friends. Neither one went anywhere without the other. They ate together, slept together, and did the circuit of the room together. Her Bella lived an amazing 2 more years until finally her health was so bad that she had to be put to sleep.
Now it gets even more touching. Poor Merlin missed his girlfriend so much, that he carried her blanket around with him everywhere he went! He would put it down long enough to eat and drink, but he refused to be parted from the blanket that Bella always slept in. The owner was afraid to wash it! I guess the smell comforted Merlin. He slept on that blanket and even when he was out playing, he did it with the blanket in his mouth.
After a few weeks, he carried it around less, but even after it was finally washed, it remained his favorite blanket until the day he died.